The query of every young person is when will I know I am grown up? Legally the threshold is 21 years of age. However, any adult knows that there is a lot more growing up after that. My mom used to say, they are still wet behind their ears—not sure where she came up with that!
Since spiritual life-change is one my core values, a top question is, when is a person a spiritual grown up? A group of Fortune 500 statisticians discovered in a survey they created for Willow Creek Church that there are four primary stages of spiritual growth the last of which is ‘Christ-Centered’. Their definition of that was “My relationship with Jesus is the most important relationship in my life. It guides me in everything I do.” That still begs the question, how does one know when a relationship with God is truly the most important in their life? How might that have validation? What I have found to be a more discerning statement is, ‘the strength of one’s devotion to Jesus Christ is not measured by her or his speech, but by his or her sufferings’. I.E. the measure of a person’s devotion to any cause, right or wrong, is the depth of suffering one is willing to endure for it.
One of the most revealing evidences of the authenticity of the apostle’s spiritual conviction was their motivation to endure incredible opposition for decades for absolutely no earthly gain. They left families and friends and with no financial support went out and preached the gospel of the kingdom of God. All but the apostle John became martyrs for what they deeply believed, not for the applause of humans or any earthly benefit. They did not have ANY security, financial or otherwise. Extremely few today would seriously consider doing this. Far too few ministers of the gospel today, who claim to be called of God, will go wherever, even to remote parts of their state, without any financial or emotional support. That is striking when compared to early believers who endured the most severe persecution, losing their jobs, possessions and even their lives ONLY because they followed Christ’s teachings.
When Jesus first appeared to the original eleven apostles, He showed them His pieced hands as proof of what He had endured. When the apostle Paul offered to the believers in Colossae proof of his zeal for God, he pointed to “…remember my chains” (Col. 4:18, NLT2). He was able to say to the believers in Galicia “I bear in my body the scars that show I belong to Jesus” (Gal. 6.17, NLT2).
Paul described spiritual maturity as “the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ” who gave His all for others. Why? so, you and I can live comfortably secure yet complain or have anxiety attacks? What we fail to understand is that our greatest inner joy comes in giving our all for the cause far bigger than anything earthly thing we can gain—the cause of God’s kingdom. Our spiritual immaturity or short sightedness is inhibiting us from walking in the abundant life Christ died to give us. From real life experience Paul wrote, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses (lit. sickness, distress), so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong (2 Corinthians 12:9b-10, ESV) What do you intuitively sense your next step is in experiencing the joy of being a spiritual grown up? When do you plan to take that step?