Exactly what is prayer? I want to pray and have done so for many decades. I’ve read and written about prayer, taught and tried various models of prayer many times over. Yet in the recesses of my heart, I continue to have this sense that, for the most part, we have misunderstood what prayer is.
Consider this, how often did the disciples set aside time each day to get alone, kneel and pray as Jesus prayed in the garden or in a way that we think of as prayer today? Truth be known, His disciples weren’t able to pray one hour with Jesus in the garden. Yes, when they were in Jerusalem they practiced the traditional Jewish temple prayer time, but that would have been a Jewish ritualistic prayer – very different from how Jesus communicated with His Father. Other than Daniel, how many major Bible heroes are said to have arranged daily prayer times? Where did we get the idea that we must pray the way we do today?
I was taught prayer was to ask God for certain things like a grocery list type thing. I prayed that way for decades, but my prayers weren’t much of a two-way conversation!! All the while, something within continued to long for more of an intimate communication with God.
What kind of prayer did Jesus teach His disciples to pray? Was what is commonly referred to as the Lord’s Prayer intended to be a liturgy spoken in church or in private? Based on what is recorded about Jesus’ prayers and His passing comments about His communication with His Father, may I be so bold as to suggest we have missed the mystique in what He enjoyed and intended for us to enjoy? For starters, I am convinced that what is commonly referred to as the Lord’s Prayer was not intended to be mechanically recited but rather “talking points” of how our conversation with God might go. He taught us to begin our conversation acknowledging the reality of our Heavenly Father and His awe-inspiring holiness. After reading Jesus’ prayer in John 17, I get the distinct impression He didn’t depend on a prayer list. Rather His prayers consisted of a sacred exchange of whatever the Holy Spirit prompted His intuition when talking with His Father.
I’ve also observed some of my prayers originate out of my mind or emotions (soul) while others flow out of my inner most being, my intuition, conscience or worship to Him (spirit). It’s the latter type that allows me to sense I’m most connected with God. I’ve also found He talks to me most when I’m meditating/reflecting on a Bible passage. What He says is personal, but it generally consists of a greater revelation of His value, ways, truths and heart. I thrive on that because I walk away from those times invigorated and optimistic about whatever I’m facing.
There’s something special within each believer that genuinely longs for intimate fellowship with his or her Creator including hearing His whispers in response to his or her requests. Isn’t that longing in itself a strong clue as to how we should focus our quest in learning to pray more effectively?
Have you been sensing a deep connection with God when you pray? If not, try breaking out of your routine and experiment with a new way to authentically connect with God who so loves you. Try journaling what you sense God may be whispering to you as you reflect on scripture; journal your prayers; pray in a different location; add a worship time [books on prayer offer different sequences before praying]. Whatever you do, seek with all your heart to connect your spirit with His Spirit. Jeremiah 29:13 (ESV) You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart. Share your discoveries with me. My time with God is so special; I want you to find a fresh way to also enjoy that same pleasure in His presence.